Im back home!!! Home sweeeet home!!


I'm so happppy todayy!! All the unhappy things that happen are not gonna get me down!! They failed terribly!


The 1st person I see when I touch down Singapore were my parents!! Such a conincidence bcuz when I was walking towards the customs I was actually feeling very sad bcuz no one came to pick me up unlike the last few times. Noone will actually pick u up from airport simply bcuz its gonna happen like 8 to 9 times a month?? So I'm feeling quite down inside, but just brush it off and tell myself, its alright, its my job! =)


But!!!! When I leave the gate, I saw my parents smiling and grining from ear to ear at me!!! They seem so proud and happy of me! Haha! Because there's actually a young girl that was shouting so loudly pointing to me, saying, "Air stewardess! Air Stewardess!" in mandarin to her mum. *Laughs!


Hmmm, I'm seriously just relating what happened and not being "blah blah blah" ya? If u dun like what I blogged and think that I'm just showing off, I will seriously advise you not to visit this blog for I dun need ur readership cuz its matters nothing to me!


Owell, bitches and bastards aside! I'm gonna continue with my happpy story!!


The sweetest part of all is that their intention is not coming to pick me up but just to see me! They wish they could but they can't because my dad rides a bike! Thats the part that touches me! They left after saying HI to me and I was like, "NO!! Lets take cab home together!!" My mum says she cant because they're going to the beach for strolls after saying HI to me! Awwwwwww!!!! Dunno to feel happy or sad?


After which, they left and I went to check out from my duty. Switched on my hp and the 1st thing is a very sweeet msg from kuku! Called him immed while waiting for a cab and talk about sooo many many things!! Bad or good doesn't matters but what most imptly is all well's end well! Ended on such a sweeet note that I'm still grinning and smiling till now!!!


Hmm! I better stop being so mushy in case u starts vomitting but I believe true friends of mine will actually be happy for me instead of cursing and swearing infront of their monitor! Owell, I dun need friends of the latter. You can jolly well disappear from my life or even from my blog and I need no presence of u at all. Not at all!


Anyway I learn so much these few days and I must share it with my readers!!


Sometimes when we go into retrospect and reflect, we actually laugh at ourselves at how silly we used to be. Should I used the word childish? Nah, I think its just human nature? To do things that benefit urself more rather than to always spare a thought for the others. Its simple to say but nv nv once easy to do.


I admit I'm not a saint and I dun practise that always but I always try my very best to do it. TRY lah, but thats doesn't mean I always succeed in my tries!


But my bottom line is I will nv do things to benefit myself at the risk or harm of others!


I can loudly and openly say that I always practise that. I have a clear conscience and I practise what I preach. People might misinterpret what I say or do, but I cant help it when they choose not to clarify with me and instead believe the wrong ones. I cant control other's mind but the least is I can control mine and I know prefectly what Im doing. I'm seriously not bullshitting here but I'm just speaking my mind and making my point clear. Whether u believe it or not, its up to u. Take it or leave it.


People always regret and one day they wil also regret whatever silly things they had said or do. Its normal and I'm just gonna take whatever bad remarks with a quarter pinch of salt and good remarks with an open heart and mind. Taking it too seriously just dampen all ur moods, spoil ur days and let the "killer" get away "scot-free"


Sheeesh! I better state here that I'm not aiming at any particular one! If anyone of u thinks I loathe u, I dun, simply bcuz I dun loathe anyone right now. Better to clarify than to invite wars on my blog. Anyway blogs are just a source of channel to air ur views, people are free to write whatever they want and kindly take whatever I say with a pinch of salt too if u're offended cuz that wasn't my intentions.


Leave writers alone and that includes me! If dun like den dun read my blog. Thats what I do nowadays too. There are so many blogs that I dun read cuz, the contents dun bother me and does not benefit me in any ways! What do u get out of reading my blog? Absoultely nothing. If u're a darling of mine, den u either feel happy for me or nothing, but if u're the opposite, u get upset when I'm happy or when reading this post. So what for? Be kinder to urself.


Now I have such a clear mind that I take whatever remarks, insults or scarsam with a pinch of salt be it at work or personal life. Instead I always laugh at where these negative comments derived from. Why bother about what people think of you, unless they're of utmost importance to u. And if they are really important people, they will clarify instead of assuming.


A method to try if u get negative remarks! Thank the person, try not to be angry, smile and leave that behind. You know urself best and u are the best judge for urself. Be glad and thank God that u're not like them. Working taught me to eat the humble pie and I feel that I should also practise that in my personal life. It really makes me a happier girl instead of keep thinking of how others are perceiving u. I used to be concerned about how people think of me that I become so unhappy and cautious. But not anymore, I had learn to understand that people are not perfect, they make mistakes and they cant make the whole world love them. I have seen the light with help from kind souls and understand that point clearly.


Respect the writer, respect yourself, respect everyone around you.


Think kuku is right, I'm getting more and more naggy! Laughs! No choice, I'm Aunty Jing!! Alright, I'd said my piece and it had been such a long time since I last posted a decent post. Hope this is one good decent post! Might sound bullshit to some of you but just read this with a open mind. Alright, lets hope all well's end well for everyone of u reading this post be it u're a friend or not. I mean what I say!


Cheers Everyone! :)

Trisha Lin

Daughter,Student,Slave